Celebacy of being a novice.....

When a fresher tends to care too much for himself , he builds a protective shield buried under which causes suffocation to his individuality. He is being kept inside the safe walls of campus to give him an environment to discover himself, put him at tests and test his ability to survive the competitors. The mistakes you make are all meant to happen inside the campus as anyways none of them would have cost you your life .

Emotional Encounters

So how exactly do you handle emotional volcanos when one erupts?

You seek solace in expressing it, let its magma burn others out so that they glorify the volcano?
Or do you wait for the magma to settle down and turn into rocks that future generations will sit on and have a word of peace?

Often in such confusion , people search for someone to listen to them. And not surprisingly they find a person with opposite sex to be more flexible to talk to.

At times this mental attraction is so immense that one creates reasons just to get a chance and have a sharing of emotions with her/him. We all have faced it . I mean, havent you ever been in any situation when your closest friend tells secrets to his girlfriend / boyfriend which he did not with you ?

welcome to the world full of friends - for - a - reason.