One thing is surely to be Controlled ... words or emotions

When you don't understand the language others use to talk to you , you tend to catch up with the emotions behind whatever you listen to.

Let these 'others' know that you don't know their language and you turn out to be the victim. :)

They can slang with a smiley face and you eventually take it for granted.On the outside you may feel like an important person but yes! the truth is 'being disguised'.

Two alternatives exist before you now ,face the truth and live with it like a dumb ass or learn their language and take it to the dance floor.

Welcome to the land of India where language changes with every 5 miles down the road. :)